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	<description>Talk about divorce</description>
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		<title>How domestic violence can scar children for life</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/02/22/how-domestic-violence-can-scar-children-for-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 10:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Domestic abuse affects many thousands of households in this country. It’s often a silent scourge, because a lot of families feel embarrassed and ashamed to talk about what is happening.]]></description>
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		<title>The top ten reasons to get divorced – and they’re the same one!</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/02/06/the-top-ten-reasons-to-get-divorced-and-theyre-the-same-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 23:52:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are lots of reasons to get divorced, but here are the top ten:]]></description>
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		<title>Schedule 1 – mothers pushing at an open door</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/02/01/schedule-1-mothers-pushing-at-an-open-door/</link>
		<comments>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/02/01/schedule-1-mothers-pushing-at-an-open-door/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:51:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Neil Hobden]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ten years ago, Schedule 1 of the Children Act 1989 – which allows an unmarried parent (usually the mother) to seek financial support for the child from the other parent – had little or no impact on the work I was doing; today, it accounts for perhaps one third of my caseload.]]></description>
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		<title>Facing the temptations of Facebook: contacting old flames can give you burnt fingers</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/01/23/facing-the-temptations-of-facebook-contacting-old-flames-can-give-you-burnt-fingers/</link>
		<comments>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/01/23/facing-the-temptations-of-facebook-contacting-old-flames-can-give-you-burnt-fingers/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 14:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A client recently described how she and her now-estranged husband used to sit up in bed together, their laptops in front of them, messaging people on Facebook.]]></description>
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		<title>Marriage: sometimes it’s “can’t mend it, must end it”</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/01/16/marriage-sometimes-its-cant-mend-it-must-end-it/</link>
		<comments>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/01/16/marriage-sometimes-its-cant-mend-it-must-end-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 14:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Breakdown]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sir Paul Coleridge, one of the country’s most senior divorce judges, is to launch a pro-marriage pressure group.]]></description>
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		<title>A divorce lawyer’s view on marriage (after two months!)</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/01/04/a-divorce-lawyers-view-on-marriage-after-two-months/</link>
		<comments>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2012/01/04/a-divorce-lawyers-view-on-marriage-after-two-months/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 00:35:26 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Happiness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[New Year]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Renewal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sue Leach]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/?p=865</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My husband and I have just spent our first Christmas together as husband and wife and have survived (and enjoyed!) just over two months of marriage. ]]></description>
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		<title>Making small changes can have a big impact on your life</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2011/12/19/making-small-changes-can-have-a-big-impact-on-your-life/</link>
		<comments>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2011/12/19/making-small-changes-can-have-a-big-impact-on-your-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 00:56:06 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Adultery]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/?p=857</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Christmas is less than a week away, so by now you’ll have your plans for the festivities in place. In all likelihood, you’ll have New Year’s Eve sorted too.]]></description>
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		<title>Money isn’t everything: a bit of R&amp;R can be worth its weight in gold</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2011/12/13/money-isnt-everything-a-bit-of-rr-can-be-worth-its-weight-in-gold/</link>
		<comments>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2011/12/13/money-isnt-everything-a-bit-of-rr-can-be-worth-its-weight-in-gold/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 21:49:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Children]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Denise McKenna]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/?p=833</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[For many families, this has been a difficult year. The global financial meltdown has caused serious difficulties for a lot of people – and is likely to continue to do so into 2012 and beyond.]]></description>
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		<title>Being a single parent at Christmas is hard – but there is much joy to be had</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2011/12/05/being-a-single-parent-at-christmas-is-hard-%e2%80%93-but-there-is-much-joy-to-be-had/</link>
		<comments>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2011/12/05/being-a-single-parent-at-christmas-is-hard-%e2%80%93-but-there-is-much-joy-to-be-had/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 00:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Children]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Georgina Burrows]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/?p=824</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Being a single parent isn’t easy – and it can be especially hard at Christmas.

Yet, even if you feel like hiding under a duvet for the duration of the festive season, there’s a pressure to go through the “isn’t this fantastic?” routine for the sake of the children.]]></description>
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		<title>An “alternative” Christmas Day is far better than a disrupted one</title>
		<link>http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/2011/11/28/an-%e2%80%9calternative%e2%80%9d-christmas-day-is-far-better-than-a-disrupted-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 07:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.dianebenussi.co.uk/?p=818</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last year, a client told me she and her estranged husband had decided to spend Christmas Day together for the sake of the children. Afterwards, she admitted it had been horrendous. So this year....she’s doing the same thing again!]]></description>
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